Frequently asked questions
What is the first step in arranging the legals for our marriage?
The marrying couple needs to complete a Notice of Intent to Marry (NOIM) which must be provided to a celebrant no later than one month prior to the ceremony. To complete this form there are a number of other original documents needed.
It is my job, and pleasure, to guide you through the process and take care of lodgements.
Do you conduct religious ceremonies?
No, I am an Authorised Marriage Celebrant in category C which means I am authorised to conduct civil secular ceremonies not aligned with any particular religion. The obligations of Marriage Celebrants are outlined in the Code of Practice.
Do you conduct “surprise” weddings?
If the surprise is for your guests, I am absolutely here for it, and will protect the privacy of your ceremony arrangements. However, marriage is a solemn undertaking and there are legal requirements for validity detailed here. Neither of the marrying couple can be “surprised” no matter how romantic and exciting the intention. Let’s have chat about the amazing surprise you have planned for your family and friends!
What is your fee?
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Do we write our own vows, or can we use other sources?
It is my responsibility to make sure that you have the correctly worded legal vows and Monitum included in your script, but the rest is up to you. There are so many examples of beautiful vows to choose from and which might only need to be reworded slightly to make them perfect for you. If you are creative and expressive and writing your own vows is something you really want to do, then go for it! If writing the vows is something way out of your comfort zone then leave it with me and I can provide some options for you to select from. You can do whichever works best for you.
Don't forget - it's your day! If you don't want personal vows, don't include them. You may wish to have a reading or poem included that sums things up just right for you, or to keep your ceremony short and sweet with just the basics. It’s your choice!
Can my family member/friend/pet(s) be involved?
Absolutely, the involvement of your loved ones in your ceremony brings personal touches that reflect your unique love story. While certain legalities are exclusive to the celebrant and witnesses need to be over 18, there's ample room for customisation. Consider having loved ones provide a warm welcome, deliver a blessing, or share a reading of your favourite prose. If you have a talented musician among your tribe, let's explore how to integrate their artistry into your special day. And for those with beloved pets, let’s chat about their role, ensuring their comfort (as well as your guests’) during rehearsals and the ceremony.
Beyond legalities, my focus is on creating an atmosphere where everyone feels comfortable and welcomed. Let’s talk about tailoring your ceremony to include the people and elements that matter most to you, ensuring your celebration is a heartfelt reflection of your love and connection.
What is the difference between a commitment ceremony and wedding?
A wedding is a legally binding union formalised through a marriage license, while a commitment ceremony is a non-legally binding, symbolic celebration chosen for personal or unique preferences. Both allow couples to express their commitment in meaningful ways tailored to their beliefs.
Can we renew our vows using the original vows?
Absolutely! Renewing your vows with the original vows is a beautiful and sentimental way to revisit the promises made on your wedding day. It adds a nostalgic touch to the ceremony, allowing you to reaffirm the enduring love and commitment you shared when you first exchanged those heartfelt words. Whether you choose to recite the original vows verbatim or customise them to reflect your journey, renewing your vows with the words that started your marital adventure can be a deeply meaningful experience.
Can we have more than one rehearsal?
If time permits and travel isn’t onerous we can talk about scheduling your rehearsal(s) to make sure everyone involved feels comfortable and confident, and that includes me!
Can you conduct a christening without the religious elements?
I would love to be involved in your child’s name giving ceremony. You can involve “Godparent” roles and special verses to celebrate the safe arrival of your child (or children) and connection to their community.
Can we live-stream?
If your venue is equipped for live-streaming, we can talk about incorporating this modern and inclusive way of celebrating your special day. Whether you have guests who can't attend physically or want to share your joy with a wider audience, live-streaming ensures everyone can be part of the moment, virtually.
Do you conduct funerals?
Authorised Marriage Celebrants can assist with preparing a celebration of life of a loved one. While I don’t offer funeral/memorial services, I am happy to refer details of Celebrants who can assist you.
What will you wear?
When deciding what style of outfit (including the very important shoes) will be most appropriate for your wedding, I will present professionally. I will be guided by your preferences and consider your colour scheme, the venue and the style of wedding you are having so that I blend in well.
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